"The Decline of Asian Marriage"
I read an interesting article in "The Economist" last month about "The Decline of Asian Marriage." In Asia, divorce is not common, but marriage rates are falling. People are getting married later in life or not marrying at all. For Japan, Taiwan, South Korea, and Hong Kong, the mean age of marriage for women is 29-30 and for men is 31-33. About 20% of women in their late 30's from these countries are single and will likely never marry.
As more women go into the workplace, fewer are getting married. Financial independence has given women the option not to marry. Often, it's women who are responsible for caring for their husbands, children, and aging parents, even while working full-time. Japanese women, who work about 40 hours a week in the office, come home and do another 30 hours of housework. Their husbands, on average, do about 3 hours. More education has also contributed to the declining marriage rate, because the more educated a woman is, the less likely she is to marry.
As a result of fewer marriages, there is also a declining birth rate in these countries. Fertility rates in East Asia have gone from 5.3 children per woman in the late 1960's to 1.6 currently. What implications does this have in a society where the rapidly growing aging population depends upon a younger shrinking population to care for them?
What can be done? The article suggests that relaxing Divorce laws and altering Family laws might encourage more to marry by making it easier to leave an unhappy marriage and less financially devastating if a divorce occurs. Legislating more maternal and paternal leave, as well as providing childcare, may also help take some of the burden off of working women and make marriage more appealing.
What are some of your thoughts on this?

Comments
So interesting!! Makes sense,
So interesting!! Makes sense, though. I do think taking the burden off of women would help things. Women are overworked as it is - and 30 hours of housework?? Argh. Sounds completely overwhelming!
Hi Sarah,
I agree--that's a lot of housework!
I read the same thing and
I read the same thing and looking at some girl friends who work full-time and care of children and household as well, I really have no desire to get marry. It is really funny I just had the same conversation with my bf last night. He told me working father has way more stress level than stay at home mom. wanted to slap him. So given my current life and future potential then what is the incentive.
Btw, I read a USC study showing men and women are wired differently. Men relax at home at the end of the day when they see their spouses busy doing chores. Women relax at the end of the day when their spouses help them with chores. Just don't add up uh....
Hi savvy gal,
I agree--a stay-at-home mom with an infant works as hard as anyone I know--and with no sleep to boot!
I heard about this from
I heard about this from another blogger and found it interesting. Wonder what this means for China where there's still the 1 child rule? Because what happens if your kid doesn't marry, then that's it for that family line. I'm sure all these only children get a lot of pressure to marry from their elders.
Hi Bicultural Mama,
That's a good point. The culture is for the family to take care of the elderly. But what happens when there are no nephews, nieces, cousins, siblings, or children to do that?
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