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It's all about feelings--insisting on good feelings between sibs leads to bad feelings. Allowing for bad feelings between sibs lead to good feelings. If your child has negative feelings about their sib, you need to acknowledge them and put them into words. Help your child channel their feelings into another outlet, by using a doll, drawing a picture, or writing a letter, rather than hitting or kicking or punching their sib.
When there is a problem with one child, don't compare him to your other child. Just describe the problem or the feelings or what needs to be done. Give them the the words they can use. "You can tell him that's yours." or "Your brother wants his ball back."
Don't necessarily treat your children equally, but treat them uniquely, focusing on their individual needs.
When someone is hurt, don't focus on the aggressor. Give all of your immediate attention to the injured party.
So, when there's a fight:
--acknowledge their anger. "You sound mad."
--listen to each side and reflect their point of view.
--appreciate the difficulty of the problem and describe it.
--tell them that you know they can work it out themselves.
--then leave the room.
Other strategies?
--state the rules. "Homework gets top priority."
--suggest a compromise or brainstorm ideas.
--use a coin toss as a last resort.
Above all, make sure each child gets quality one-on-one time with you. to buy
Berlitz's My House: Lift-the-flap Board Book, in Chinese and English, is a great way to introduce your child to Mandarin Chinese. There are 6 scenes with cute illustrations and mulitple flaps to lift to learn several new words in simplified Chinese, pinyin, and English.
In "my house", you learn to say Hello, Welcome, cloud, mailbox, sun, bicycle, window, flower, and tree in Chinese. Similarly, you can learn simple words in "my family", "the playroom", "the kitchen", "the bathroom", and "the bedroom" (including Good night!).
If you have any trouble with the pronunciation of the words, you can hear them online at the website www.berlitzpublishing.com. Great book! to buy
The Usborne Internet-Linked First Thousand Words in Chinese, by Heather Amery, illustrated by Stephen Cartwright, provides a brief introduction to Chinese language, including a rough guide to pronouncing pinyin and the 4 tones in Mandarin Chinese.
The first section shows pictures of different scenes, such as "At Home". These particular pages show the rooms in a house and the basic objects and furnishings inside the house. There is no English on these pages, only simplified Chinese characters and pinyin in very small print. They cover the kitchen, the garden, the garage, the street, the toy store, the park, the zoo, travel, the country, the farm, the seaside, the school, the hospital, the doctor's office, a party, and the store.
Next, there are pictures of foods, body parts, clothing, occupations, family members, things to do, opposites, days of the week, times of day, special days, the weather, the seasons, pets, sports, exercise, colors, shapes, numbers, the amusement park, and the circus. Phew--very comprehensive!
At the end of the book, there is a word list, listed alphabetically in pinyin, where you can look up the English translation to any word in the book that you don't know. If you have trouble pronouncing any of the words, you can go to their website and listen to all of the words in the book spoken by a native Chinese speaker. For added fun, you can look for the hidden duck in every big picture, characteristic of Stephen Cartwright's work in Usborne books.
Although the Chinese characters and pinyin seem to be very tiny in this book, I do love this book for its wonderful illustrations and practical vocabulary lists. to buy
Here's a great introduction to yoga for little ones. The book My Daddy is a Pretzel: Yoga for Parents and Kidsby Baron Baptiste gives detailed instructions on how to do 9 different yoga poses and explains the purpose behind each pose. It's wonderfully illustrated with cute, multicultural characters demonstrating the various yoga positions.
You will learn how to do the Tree Pose (Vrksasana), the Dog Pose (Adho Mukha Svanasana), the Triangle Pose (Trikonasana), the Airplane Pose (Dekasana), the Bridge Pose (Setu Bandhasana), the Plow Pose (Halasana), the Fish Pose (Matsyasana), the Lion Pose (Simhasana), and the Pretzel Pose (Marichyasana).
At the end of the book, there are tips for young yogis for preparation, practice, and having the right attitude, such as respecting your body and believing in yourself. What a terrific book! to buy
In the book Zen Shorts, by Jon Muth, Addy, Michael, and Karl find a Giant Panda in their backyard one day. Stillwater, the panda, "spoke with a slight panda accent."
The next day, Stillwater tells Addy a wonderful story about giving in Uncle Ry and the Moon. The next day, Michael hears an interesting story about luck, which can be viewed from different perspectives, in The Farmer's Luck. The day after that, Karl is told a story about forgiveness in A Heavy Load.
At the end of the book, the author's note explains the meaning of the Japanese word "Zen"--meditation. This is a thought-provoking book for early grade-schoolers, with stories which challenge them to re-examine the way they see things in life. Highly recommended! to buy
In Babar's World Tour, Babar tours the world at a dizzying pace. His family visits Italy, Germany, Spain, Russia, India, Japan, Thailand, Cambodia, Mexico, Egypt, the US, France, and Antarctica. The reader gets a little glimpse of each place. Of note, in Japan, Babar's family members take off their shoes, sit on the floor, use chopsticks, bow, say Gochisosama (Great meal!), and visit a garden of sand and stone. What a nice introduction to different parts of the world for little ones. to buy