Tweens
In this last week before school started, I took the kids to the Arboretum, the Zoo, and the Children's Museum. The kids had a blast and really enjoyed it, but it had been a while since we'd been to these old favorite places, and I noticed that my 8 and 10-year-olds were sort of swimming in a sea of toddlers and preschoolers. It made me realize that the kids are getting older, and maybe soon, they'll be too old for the stuff that we've always done.
So, now that I've got "tweens," I'm wondering...what am I supposed to do with them? They just seem so big. Even at the playground, my 10-year-old keeps hitting her head on the equipment because she's getting to be too tall. Poor thing! In less than 5 months, she'll be 11, and I suppose it's true that you don't see too many 11-year-olds on playsets these days. Please tell me there are other options for her than texting and going to the mall!
I think I'm going to keep encouraging them to swim, ski, play tennis, bike, & hike. I'd love to try camping with them. We took a few knitting & sewing classes at Jo-Ann, and we tried baking, fishing, and gardening this summer. This fall, we'll continue with piano, Tae Kwon Do, and Chinese class, and we'll go from there. Anyone have any other ideas? What do you do with your tweens?

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my friend was just so amazed
my friend was just so amazed and sad that her little girl is now a teen. : )
Hi Savvy gal,
It really happens so fast!
tweens
Well, I think it's wonderful that you still take them to those places. Even though preschoolers roam these places, older kids get a whole different perspective out of them. They can learn farther in depth and about a lot more things there!
All those activities you mentioned are great for their age. My kids are not quite there yet (ages 5 and 9), but they LOVE to cook and bake with me. Well, I'll probably be coming to you for advice when I get to that stage! :)
Hi Sandra,
We really need to take advantage of this special time, before they figure out that they're too cool to hang out with Mom & Dad! :)
They are a perfect age for camping
Old enough to help a little, and understand how to navigate bathroom situations, etc. and able to hike farther... not so old that they're complaining. My kids like to go on longer bike rides now that they have more endurance, too. Enjoy the time!
Hi HapaMama,
Thanks! We've already got a tent--just need to practice pitching it in the backyard, then we'll be ready to tackle the outdoors!
I'm not expert in tweens, but
I'm not expert in tweens, but when we went to the Aquarium recently it was almost all toddlers and preschoolers. I wonder where the Tweens go?
Hi Bicultural Mama,
I know--where do they all go? Travel soccer or swim team? The mall or the movies? Texting & playing video games? I guess I'll find out soon enough!
Oh boy!
My kids are all still very young so I have no idea what tweens do these days but sounds like you are on the right track with all the activities you have listed. I'm going to be learning from you when it comes to tweens!
Hi Zi,
It's a whole new world--my 5th-grader is almost as tall as me!
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